My breakup story and guide
Yeah, you read that right. It’s a breakup guide. I am going to talk about a lot of stuff right now so read this story carefully without thinking that much.
Do this first
Imagine, yourself in a relationship and the guy/girl you are in love with doesn’t even care about you, They ghost you and they will reply once in 4–5 days.
After ignoring you they will even tell you that your love is fake and they are the victims and you are the manipulator.
What will you do after this?
Just comment down your answers.
My story
At first, everything was fine. We used to talk a lot and send cute couple reels every day (yeah I know it’s cringe). But one day I realized that she was not replying to my cringe-worthy yet cute messages. I spammed her DMS. She didn’t reply. Then I thought that she was busy.
But, she didn’t reply to me for a whole week. I was broken. Destroyed and miserable and a lot of words that you can fit into this situation, let’s concentrate on the story.
After one week she finally replied. I was very angry after this so I told her that I would ask some questions to her and she would only reply with yes or no. She accepted it.
I asked her a lot of things and the replies were normal and she seemed to be genuinely in love with me. But then I asked her a last question and then after seeing the reply, I was so shocked.
I asked her “do you love me”
“No, I just like you” she replies
This was not expected at all.
Why did she accept my proposal in the first place if she didn’t love me?
Was I just her time pass?
These types of questions came into my mind. I was devastated. She was acting nice all the time while she was annoyed.
I closed my phone and thought about it. The next day I texted her again but this time the topic of the message was our breakup. I was tired of getting ignored and I didn’t want to be someone’s time pass.
This text was also ignored. I blocked her on every platform I could.
But inside me, there is a part that loves her till now and wants her back.
What did I do to move on?
My situation was pretty different. I don't know if I am wrong or right.
Still, her thoughts linger on my mind whenever I try to sleep or anything.
Moving on from a girl whom you loved a lot is very difficult and takes a lot of patience.
Here are some tips from me
Distract yourself
Whenever your brain tries to think about just distract yourself from any other work. Playing games and reading books can help a lot.
Listen to the right music
I don’t know why does everybody listens to sad songs whenever they are sad. Listening to sad songs will only trigger sad feelings and will make you remember her.
Listen to happy songs and party songs, they will boost your mood.
Conclusion
While I loved her a lot she failed to give me all the love back. Yeah, I know that last line was a bit cringe. Before coming into a relationship always understand your partner and never be in a hurry of coming into a relationship.
